Benefits of Divorce Mediation:
Saves So Much Money– A mediated divorce can cost significantly less than going to court to litigate. No retainer required. You pay only for the time that you use as you use it. A much more affordable divorce.
Saves So Much Time– Since you are both in the same room speaking directly with one another and making decisions about your divorce, resolutions can be reached quickly. A faster divorce through open communication.
Less/No Time in Court– An uncontested divorce can be processed quickly through the court system. You may only have to attend/Zoom with court one time– the day your divorce is finalized.
Structured Process– Divorce mediation follows a structured process. You will know what to expect and how to best prepare for the next steps in the divorce process and beyond. Relieves a lot of anxiety about the unknowns of a divorce.
Positive Parenting– You will still be a parent, even when you are no longer a spouse. Less arguing during the divorce process and beyond is better for the kids. A lower conflict divorce now and an improved co-parenting relationship in the future.
Less Stress– A more informal and less scary atmosphere than court. You control when and how often you meet. You can schedule according to your work/family/life needs. A multi-faceted process is broken down into smaller, more manageable steps. No court-imposed deadlines to meet. Move along at your chosen pace. You can opt to meet in person at the office or virtually on Zoom.
Less Conflict– You communicate person-to-person with your spouse, instead of through third parties (divorce attorneys). The neutral divorce mediator helps ease resentment and misunderstandings while preventing the same past fights from repeating themselves. Able to move forward and focus on the present and future, not the past.
Confidential– You can resolve your personal family matters in private and not in the public court of law.
Better Post-Divorce Relationship– You are more likely to follow through with the terms of your divorce agreement because you had input into these decisions. Everyone, including your children, is happier in the long run. Less likely to have to return to court after the divorce.
More Control– You can do what works best for your family. You make these life decisions, not a judge. You can be creative about solutions. You have control over your divorce and your future. A much more personalized experience.
Nothing to Lose, Lots to Gain– Deciding to try divorce mediation does not mean that you must stick with it if it does not work for you. You can stop at any point and proceed with divorce litigation and a contested divorce. However, a large majority of people who start divorce mediation complete the process with a divorce agreement in hand.